(This post is from guest blogger, Ashley Nihart, a health and life coach. Check out her bio at the end of this post and then stop by her website www.happyhealthyandwell.com for more great tips on living your best life!)
It’s amazing how much fear can hold us back. Fear of the unknown. Fear of what others may think. Fear of failure. Fear of success even. No matter what type of fear is holding you back from achieving your goals, and living your best life, there is a way to move beyond it.
For so long I did what was safe. I went to school, graduated, and got a good job. The whole time I knew, I was not on the path I was meant to live. But fear got in the way. For me, fear was heavily associated with low self esteem and worrying about what others would think. Going out of my comfort zone meant behaving in ways I wasn’t known for. I was the nice, quiet girl. Never outspoken or daring. But going for my dreams meant I had to break this mold so many people knew of me. And it was scary.
What if people didn’t like me? What if I looked foolish? What if everyone would make fun of me? What if I tried and didn’t succeed?
For the longest time, I allowed these fears to hold me back. To keep me from living my best life. I followed the path everyone expected me to follow but never felt fulfilled. Deep down, I knew I was meant for more. I just wasn’t brave enough to go for it.
In an attempt to find meaning and purpose in my life, I read tons of self improvement books. Listened to dozens of podcasts about going for your dreams and loving your life. I found mentorship and guidance through the authors and speakers on these platforms. It was a slow process but eventually, I started to believe in myself. And with this belief I developed bravery. (more…)